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August 12, 2005, 6:38 pm PDT
Differing Sex Drives
Quote From: latingirlWell you both need to work on this issue together. No matter if he weighs 100 lbs extra, he is still your husband and if you want sex....well he is the only one you have, so make it work. You should make plans to do stuff together, like working out, making a healthy dinner together. Going on a walk or jog also is great for a couple to do together. You still need to love him no matter what he looks like.
But he does need to see someone in regards to his non-sexual cravings. I am sure you have talked to him several times but he just doesn't get it and will not get it until someone else says it to him. You should make an appt for both of you to see someone, together and see what he says.
thanks fo the advice and I do love him no matter what- the weird thing about his weight issue isn't that i wasn't attracted to the way he looks, he is still very handsome to me, it was his eating habits. but nontheless we have talked openly about our feelings from day one so we had a talk about it and things are better, it is going to be a on going issue as far as the sex thing is concerned. but i am not going anywhere.
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