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August 20, 2005, 10:52 am PDT
gaining weight over the years
Quote From: amanda04thanks fo the advice and I do love him no matter what- the weird thing about his weight issue isn't that i wasn't attracted to the way he looks, he is still very handsome to me, it was his eating habits. but nontheless we have talked openly about our feelings from day one so we had a talk about it and things are better, it is going to be a on going issue as far as the sex thing is concerned. but i am not going anywhere. When my ex husband and I got married, he was 156lbs and over our 6 year marriage he got up to 220lbs and he is only 5'6"! I tried everything, we talked about it, I cooked only good stuff for him, I supported his no carb diet, but he sneaked. He divorced me because he wanted us to start over and be friends, (long story), but in the past 4 years since our divorce he has lost all his weight and works out everyday. He looks great! He needed to do it by himself. He now wants to get back together and is still very much in love with me, but I am in an on and off relationship and have a 2 yr old son. I have so many resentments for him, but I do still love him, I just don't know how to deal with the resentment and with that, i have tried everything in my current relationship to stay together becasue I don't want to give up like my ex gave up on me, even though it is not a good one. Sorry, got off the subject. Our sex life was real bad when we were married because of his self asteem, not cause of me.
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