Quote From: jb7ctxGet ready for lots of bumps in the road. One, why did this girl wait 12 years to tell him that he could be a father? Why now, knowing that he is fixing to get married? Why has his brother kept this from him all these years? Do you and his brother get along? Maybe the brother is trying to stir up trouble for you guys. If this other woman had a child 12 years ago and if another man had put his name on that childs birth certificate, then your fiance would not be held responsible for anything relating to this child unless he wants too, if it is his. If the child is his and he chooses to be a part of its life, get ready to deal with an ex that you know nothing about. It is not fun. Maybe this woman is looking for child support. It is just strange that she waited until she heard that you guys were getting married and now tells him this. Sounds like something is up. Be careful.
Thank you so much for your response, just knowing someone is out there listening is a warming feeling. You have all the same questions we have been trying to answer. She does not seem to answer any of them other than this boy is now going through growing pains and wants to know the real truth about his father. She has gone along saying that the man she is with now is his father until now. We will proceed with paternity testing and hopefully that will answer more questions. I do get along with his brother but i believe there is some jealousy over our relationship and how well we are doing together, that is only thing i can imagine. She is unknown father on the birth certificate and we would be prepared to accept him if the boy turns out to be his..... it just going to be a long tough road...
Thank you for your thoughts :)
