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I've discovered that we are bits and pieces of all that has gone before, and we are not. We are shaped by those that have gone before us, but we are unique beings also, able to go forward in ways that are ours only. I found a variety of "characters" in my past, ranging from possible nobility to cattle rustlers to some real shady ladies. But they are not me. I have the freedom, and the responsibility, and make my own mark in this world. I've gotten a later start than others, but that's OK, better late than never.
School reunions can be illuminating in the self analysis leading to discovering how we got to the place we are at. For example, when I went to my first one, I learned that many thought I was shy, stupid, or thought I was better than others. I was amazed! In my own mind, I was afraid of others, due to hearing problems and self esteem issues. I thought I was not as good as others, and the idea that others would come to the exact opposite conclusion was astounding. But there you have it, that was the facade that I presented to the world. The conclusions were incorrect but I could not hate them for thinking that way, just the same as I could not blame myself. It just WAS. It's difficult to realize that you've been putting your happiness in the hands of people who do not see you clearly, relying on their good opinion of you when their opinion is based on faulty conclusions. Self-worth, contentment, and happiness can only come from within. Once you see yourself clearly, others will be able to  also.