Replies to 'Getting Along With Your In-Laws'

I didn't think people could shock me as much as the post from renaentx.  I think you were right on with you answer to this lady.  I was in shock when I read how far she went to PROVE herself right. 

The first on her reply to you was to say..... 

 I do aggree with you that we have spent ALOT of time checking up on her and proveing what we new was true, and that it seems a little on the stalking side as you say, 

Then she goes on in the same message to say: 

I didn't devote as much time as you think I did, it takes all of 5 minutes to turn on a computer and print an email and be done 

Invasion of privacy are she.  That is really going overboard.  To me that should be a criminal offence.  I certainly do NOT think adultery is good.  But what happened was between her HUSBAND and HERSELF and had NOTHING to do with the sister-in-law nor the brother-in-law.  If it bothered her so much why couldn't she talk to her only and tell her if it didn't stop immedietly then she would tell the husbands brother.  It seems to me that she is the reason and cause of all of this heartbreak in her family.  But it wasn't her concern at all.  She sure proved she were right...but it seems to me it didn't matter who she hurt in the process.  I do understand she wanted to protect her brother-in-laws assets.  But doing what she did is just so wrong.  And the only thing that happaned is the family is in tormoil and now the bro-in-law nor the sis-in-law want anything to do with her.(go figure)  Now that to me seems justified.  How would she feel if someone was stealing mail from her and copying it and reading it???  Yea I know.......her response to me would be...I don't care... 

Well this is just my two cents worth.  I have nothing to hide at all.  If my husband wants to invade my privacy and read my emails that's fine...because he is MY husband...plus he doesn't need  to because I generally print them out and leave them around anyway.  And to say she would do it again.  I feel very sad for her.  I really just wanted you to know jen that I totally agree with you on this.  You were right on with your advice and I think you handled what you said very well.  Notice I am writing this to you and not her.  Because I could NOT handle myself as well as you did when she responded to you.