Replies to 'Ready for Marriage?'

I have been in the same situation  (young and dumb syndrome) now that I have grown and have three kids I realize that kids suffer more in a relationship like that than they do when having divorced parents. you owe it to them to be happy. don't wait till youv'e waisted 15 years to live. 

till then I suggest the book called the bible for strength. 

I know what it is like being with someone off the net and let me tell you what girl, i spent 6 long hard months with this guy. things got really bad and never would have worked out. you should really work up the courage to leave becasue if you dont then things could get so much worse. possibly even to physical abuse. it will leave you heart broken for a while but honestly you move on. I was nothing but in love with this guy and we were getting married. I left my home state and my family to be with him and it was the biggest mistake of my life.  I came home shortly after i found out he was sleeping with my best friend. We are no longer friends and i dont speak to him. it has only been almost a year now and i am finding myself to be even happier without him. Dont let him do that to you. get out and soon