She asked if anyone ever confronted there abuser right? I said (For me) yes I have and (Yes) there is no right or wrong way to do so okay however a person should be prepared.
I was trying in my way since this was a new board and there were no other posters here and I was the first poster to respond to her or him not sure because I didn't do an investigative search on the party however I do know the pain of incest share my experience strength and hope...a person should not go off half prepared.
Dr. Phil's Book LIFE STRATEGIES SAVED MY LIFE 54 DAYS AGO and IF I would have read it PRIOR to my confronting my abusers I would have been alot more effective than I was so many years back when I did. I went about it all wrong back than with a half baked brain.
I now only wish the best for people who have been in the same situations I was in...