Quote From: tray00I would not allow my kids to go their. I would take the other two and have them live me. I would tell your X how you feel on this. And tell him what you are thinking of doing, I don't care if it would wreck your relationship with your X or not. Think of your kids.
If there is a custody/visitation order in place which places the older two there and allows for the other one to spend time there, violating it could cause her serious legal problems--and could result in a total loss of custody and visitation, putting them into that environment fulltime, with her having absolutely NO influence at all. I would call the authorities and report what I know, and let them handle it. Taking it into your own hands can only lead to problems.
Teresa