Quote From: jettavRemember, we teach people how to treat us and if this all bothers you so much, why are you having sex with him? Quit giving him what he wants and stand up for your self. I would encourage you to step up and help yourself, he isn't going to change or tell you anything because you are allowing him to get away with what he is doing. Is tehre some where you can go besides there? Or maybe tell him, you no longer want toput up with his crap and to move inw with the other woman. People like this isn't worth staying with. Have some respect for yuor self.
I am sorry this is happening to you. Remember that this is not something YOU are doing. It is something HE is doing. There is nothing that says you have to sit there and take it. He is in a dealbreaker situation. Since he canot tell the truth and wouldn't know it if it bit him on the butt you will need to enforce it for yourself.
You get proof of what he is doing.
You hire a lawyer.
You meet him in a public place and tell him that you have had enough of the games and officially serve him with papers.
You have to let him know that his treatment of you is not acceptable just because he is an immature cheating jerk who wants to behave like an @zz..
You move on and make yourself accountable for what happiness you have instead of putting your life on hold waiting to see what one jerk is going to do next.
When did he become all important and you second class? Reclaim your power. He is doing this to you because he CAN. It is up to you to stop it. You deserve better!
Jenn
