Quote From: monileahTHIS IS THE TRUTH OF ALL RELATIONSHIPS , WHEN THERE IS NO KIND OF RESPECT TOWARDS YOU, WHEN YOU ARE NOT DOING THINGS FOR YOU BUT JUST TO PLEASE YOUR PARTNER,WHEN YOU ARE AFRAID AND NOT SURE OF HOW TO TALK TO YOUR PARTNER, WHEN YOU FIGHT FOR THE STUPID THINGS. AND WHEN YOU ARE SECOND IN YOUR OWN MIND.
THE RELATIONSHIP HAS TO END, FOR YOU, IF HE DOESN'T RESPECT YOU ONE BIT, HE DOESN'T LOVE YOU, IF YOUR FEELINGS DON'T MATTER, HE DOESN'T LOVE YOU HE WON'T CHANCE IF HE DID NOT RESPECTED YOU AND LOVED YOU AND GAVE ALL YOU EVER WANTED SINCE THE BEGGINING OF THE RELATIONSHIP.
LEAVE HIM.!!!!
IF HE HAD CHEATED AND YOU THINK HE WON'T DO IT AGAIN, HE WILL, IF YOU HAVE CHILDREN AND THIS IS GOING ON, LEAVE HIM!!, THIS KIND OF RELATIONSHIP IS NO GOOD FOR THEM
AND MOST OF ALL YOU DO NOT DESERVE IT. IT IS NOT EASY , TO LEAVE SOMEONE YOU LOVE, BUT IF YOU DO NOT DO THIS THING TO HIM, WHY DOES HE DO THEM TO YOU, STOP THINKING OF WHAT IT COULD BE AND SEE WHAT IT REALLY IS.
IT IS HARD BUT NOT IMPOSIBLE, THERE IS NO BETTER SATISFACTION TO BE IN THIS EARTH IN THIS LIFE KNOWING THAT YOU ARE HAPPY AND THAT YOU HAVE SOMEONE THAT LOVES YOU WAITING FOR YOU AT HOME, THAT YOU CAN BE YOURSELF WITHOUT JUDGMENT OR FIGHTING.
IT CAN HAPPEN BUT THE ONLY ONE THAT CAN MAKE IT HAPPEN IS YOU.
NOT HIM YOU.
THIS IS WHAT I WOULD LIKE TO TELL ALL THE WOMAN IN THIS SHOW, MARRIAGE OR DIVORCE IS NOT THE END OF YOU.
IF IT DOESN'T WORK, THERE IS MORE THAN LIFE THAN CONFLICT AND HEADACHES.
There is alot of wisdom in what you have said. I think I just read something I needed to hear
right now. If he doesn't respect me he doesn't love me. I have been confused because his
actions contradict his words and I now realize and should have before is that action speaks louder
than words. You said it isn't imposible, but it is hard. That has been my whole problem, I need
to get confidence that I don't have to depend on him. I wish I were there today, I am working at it.
I appreciate the point you make in that if a marriage doesn't work out, it doesn't mean it is the end
of me. It is up to me and I take that ownership right now.
Thank you for your post.
