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February 10, 2006, 9:43 am PST

actually you do condone what he did

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I didn't condone what he did, and the whole point of my quote WAS that something is wrong with their realtionship. The fact is - from these facts - it could be something small and repairable. it doesn't need to become a deal breaker that you cry all night about. I was simply trying to show her that people are people and we all behave poorly at some time....her husband was on the very low end of poor behavior considering some of the stuff you see and hear.  I stand by my first quote . What goes on in peoples heads is there own business and no one should ever demand something different. As for the people in the pictures, providing that there are NO children ,obviously, ---of course they have personalities and familes etc. BUT they've put themselves out there to be looked at....its part OF their personality and doesn't take anything away from them. For whatever reason they want to be looked at. C'est La Vie.....its not a perfect world....I can't imagine living in your perfect world and still getting through it, with your strigent...lines that MUST never be crossed. 

To the original writer of the problem.......go and have some fun!!!! 

  

I believe you said  

  

"Your gonna toss that all away because he wanted to look at girlie pictures. My take on the whole thing......he's a bit bored with things..think about your sex life is.....is it exciting anymore...happens to all of us so don't fret.  Seems to me...he didn't talk...your probably busy alot with 3 kids and night school etc....so he decided to find some "safe" excitement of his own.  Doesn't sound like he went to a hard core porn site..he's just looking at naked girls..........FACTS OF LIFE...Men like to see the female body naked............absorb the news....its totally okay ...your husband chose to do it in a way that was private - no humiliation for you thru friends and family....he didn't go have an affair...he just tried to spice things up by himself. He should have talked to you about this BUT MEN DON"T TALK rememeber.......... " 

  

It sounds to me like you've just jusified what he did said it wasn't that bad & was just one of the "facts of Life" and prceeded to blame this poor broken hearted woman not because her husband is lying through his teeth to her & hiding stuff but because he did this in a "way that was private?"  LOL  It sure is private when you keep it from your wife.  & no humiliation for WHO?  And why is it this woman who's throwing it all away because her her husband like to look at girlie pics?  Isn't it HIM who's throwing it all away so he can be looking at girlie pics?  Doesn't seem like enough to have his risk his wife trusting him does it?  But he did it any way didn't he?  This isn't because he's doing something that's innocent.   

  

You are condoning what he did & even excusing him lying & being deceitful & then laying all the blame on her because she's "probably busy with kids"  well maybe he should be helping with the kids instead of fooling around at that computer!  

 
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February 10, 2006, 1:06 pm PST

02/10 Last Chance

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I didn't condone what he did, and the whole point of my quote WAS that something is wrong with their realtionship. The fact is - from these facts - it could be something small and repairable. it doesn't need to become a deal breaker that you cry all night about. I was simply trying to show her that people are people and we all behave poorly at some time....her husband was on the very low end of poor behavior considering some of the stuff you see and hear.  I stand by my first quote . What goes on in peoples heads is there own business and no one should ever demand something different. As for the people in the pictures, providing that there are NO children ,obviously, ---of course they have personalities and familes etc. BUT they've put themselves out there to be looked at....its part OF their personality and doesn't take anything away from them. For whatever reason they want to be looked at. C'est La Vie.....its not a perfect world....I can't imagine living in your perfect world and still getting through it, with your strigent...lines that MUST never be crossed. 

To the original writer of the problem.......go and have some fun!!!! 

  

I will not get into assassination attempts on my character, nor will I attack you personally. However, my life is full of people. Those with whom I spend a lot of time with hold to most of the same values that I do. I have many other people that I associate with on a less intimate level. 

  

 What another person does with their life is their business, but if someone is putting themselves out there to be seen in an unhealthy way, such as posing naked or half naked on the web, then I can respect them enough not to look at them, even if they do not respect themselves that much. My world is not perfect and I don't claim to do everything right. I don't believe that by having a good set of morals and ethics makes my world rigid by any means. I think it gives me the opportunity to see what is truly beautiful in this world.....and it is not naked people openly showing their lack of self respect.    

  

I am able to enjoy a cup of coffee with a long time friend. I can paint a picture with my children and marvel at how much they are growing. I can see my husband come home from work, tired and dirty, and still see the handsome daredevil who stole my heart, and took my breath away, because I choose to delve deep into the reserves of love I have for him whenever life gets difficult. When I think of him in that way, he will always be more than any picture on a screen could ever be.  

  

  

  

Oh and by the way.......just because we are able to do something (like see naked people on the web) doesn't mean we have to or should. We are able to lick other people shoes, and try to stick our heads in a lion's mouth, but just because someone else may do it doesn't mean that I will blindly do it also. 

 


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