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February 13, 2006, 11:11 am PST

02/13 Love Smart Island, Part 1

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They all want a roll in the hay they are hard wired for that.  They have lots of other wants too, but the real question is: 

  

Where do you meet men that acutally have and are willing to offer something you want in return? 

There isn't a "place" where your gonna find guys like that. It's not like all of the "good guys" are gonna be in school, or at the gym. I would suggest you join something you like doing as a hobby and maybe you'll find someone that likes doing the same things you do. Or maybe unexpectedly someone will find you. But you just have to keep your eyes open. There is no "place" your gonna go and find the guy your looking for. It's about doing what you do, and hopefully having some success.
 
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February 13, 2006, 3:17 pm PST

Agreed, but on the inverse side of that.....

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They all want a roll in the hay they are hard wired for that.  They have lots of other wants too, but the real question is: 

  

Where do you meet men that acutally have and are willing to offer something you want in return? 

I'm a man, succesful, and in my mid-30's.  Divorced, after 13 years of marrage, and have two boys, 15, and 10.  Funny.....  I can't seem to find any WOMEN that aren't hard-wired for the perverbial roll-in-the-hay (and maybe a nice, free dinner).....  I just want someone (psudo) normal that wants to settle down, and have a life.  I've tried all of the dating services, churches, bars, etc......  Pretty simple with me....  Just want a connection....  Spiritual, intellectual, emotional, and physical.....  Maybe that's more than 'most' men, but still funny that everybody thinks that women are the only ones having problems finding a connection with someone. 
 
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February 13, 2006, 5:15 pm PST

Rolling men

Quote From: lh2000

They all want a roll in the hay they are hard wired for that.  They have lots of other wants too, but the real question is: 

  

Where do you meet men that acutally have and are willing to offer something you want in return? 

I have concluded that there are no real men, the few that we occasionaly catch are indeed just playing men, they are truly clueless and Dr. Phil is clueless if he thinks that real men exist.
 


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