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February 14, 2006, 7:33 pm PST
You said it!
Quote From: traveltramI agree with you on that. I would love to see the very same men set up with women that more match their looks. I would love to know their response and reaction. As an attractive, educated woman I do need to be with someone that is not only a good person, intelligent, but someone that i am physically attracted to, that does not make one a bad person, but honest. Mind you, at the same time a guy may be absolutely gorgeous, but if he has zero personality a 10 quickly becomes a zero Both you ladies have an excellent point and I couldn't have said it better myself.
For women, looks DO count when it comes to dating men but they're not nearly as important as personality. However, I don't think the same could be said for men. For men, looks are absolutely number one with personality coming in second, or even third or fourth. A woman's personality is no indication of her love life, sorry to say. I've witnessed several marraiges where the bride has a terrible personality (cruel, manipulative, selfish) but has a pretty face and is a good cook and housecleaner. The groom? A decent guy who doesn't have his priorities straight.
I have unconventional looks- pale skin and dark, dark hair. I've had men act downright disgusted by me strictly because of my coloring. From my frusturated point of view men want someone as close to Barbie as is possible- blonde, lightly tanned and very thin. This is ridiculous because, as our African-American sisters remind us, Beauty does not begin and end with Barbie.
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