Hey! Don't worry about finding a man for now...just let life happen. You sound like a great girl if you are the same girl i read earlier (lol)...You are so right not to meet men in bars.
If you happen to live anywhere they teach ballroom dance classes,,,that is a very fun way to meet people,,,both male and female. Take tennis lessons,,,I have made some nice male friends from that as well. You can start playing tennis at any age.
All the best!
rg
