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It is not my husband and I that are having the disagreement though, but the school system that we are forced to deal with.  They seem to think that Farting is something to punish and that when my 11 year old was thrown against the wall by a 17 yr old that was not to be punished.  That when a 13 yr old says they will slit some ones thoat that will not be punished but when my 8 yr old needs to have a bowel movement that needs to be punished.  I am losing my mind and my kids are so depressed.  I am trying to save enough to move out of here.  We will seperate.  For the kids sake.  Because of the school system.  I will need to get them into therapy as soon as we are close enough to a Dr.  We have been through so much as a family.  We have survived my illnesses.  All of our bills.  Living homless and in a camp groung in NY for 6 months but the school system is tearing us apart.  IT is just wrong??   

They will Not disaplin the kids that are doing things wrong.  The ones that want to cheat and hurt the other kids.  When you talk to the cschool about that they wont do anything.  When my son would turn other kids in they would do nothing.  When my oldest son was harrased on the way to Football in Front of the driver, about cheating this year the school did nothing.  My son cant poop fast enough and they are timing him sending people into the bathroom with him.   

We are not the only family going through this.  It seems to have happen for many generations here.  The other family it is happening to is also a goverment family that is dislocated with no family close by.  We are called outside trouble makers.  For trying to start a PTA.  Farting and Pooping why do they do these things to children? 

deminted and in angush laney 

It is not my husband and I that are having the disagreement though, but the school system that we are forced to deal with.  They seem to think that Farting is something to punish and that when my 11 year old was thrown against the wall by a 17 yr old that was not to be punished.  That when a 13 yr old says they will slit some ones thoat that will not be punished but when my 8 yr old needs to have a bowel movement that needs to be punished.  I am losing my mind and my kids are so depressed.  I am trying to save enough to move out of here.  We will seperate.  For the kids sake.  Because of the school system.  I will need to get them into therapy as soon as we are close enough to a Dr.  We have been through so much as a family.  We have survived my illnesses.  All of our bills.  Living homless and in a camp groung in NY for 6 months but the school system is tearing us apart.  IT is just wrong??   

They will Not disaplin the kids that are doing things wrong.  The ones that want to cheat and hurt the other kids.  When you talk to the cschool about that they wont do anything.  When my son would turn other kids in they would do nothing.  When my oldest son was harrased on the way to Football in Front of the driver, about cheating this year the school did nothing.  My son cant poop fast enough and they are timing him sending people into the bathroom with him.   

We are not the only family going through this.  It seems to have happen for many generations here.  The other family it is happening to is also a goverment family that is dislocated with no family close by.  We are called outside trouble makers.  For trying to start a PTA.  Farting and Pooping why do they do these things to children? 

deminted and in angush laney