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February 15, 2006, 6:48 pm PST
 Quote From: msmom_2 I am oh so sorry if you feel I am saying all men in their 40's are in need of self help therapy. I should specify that is my opinion of the ones i have met and know.. Believe me when I say I am so unconditional to men and there situations. Afterall, I am not a 20 yr old anymore either and realize that as we become more mature the same things arent as important as they once were. I have dated men that have had things going on in their lives that a 20 yr old wouldnt know how to deal with. Life experience helps us see past the flaws and learn to deal with them, if you cant.. move on. I am 5'5 and was engaged to a man that was 5'7. Height is not a issue. But, honesty, trust and being reliable are large issues. If you dont have trust and honest you have nothing. What i guess I am saying is without the important components, you have nothing. In my experiences, men in their 40's that I have met, need self help therapy. Women seem to move on more gracefully then men. Men tend to hold grudges and walk around with a chip on their shoulder. ohoh, men that I know. Sorry if i offended all the men in their 40's out there. My Bad .... Hopefull in Canada Why is it that it is the guys who are the ones getting all the _hits...I will also admit that according to the show it was the guy doing all the stupid things but it is not only the guys out there that are doing it. Women out there are doing the same thing...teasing, putting on guys, then dropping them when they are thru with them. I know this from practical experience. Rascal57 says that she knows all men out there are not like that guy on Dr. Phil's show but that we are few and far between. Well how would she know unless she had met all the guys out there and obviously she has not because she has not met me. I have met women out there that I have found out later have had other things going on in their lives also. Women who drag you along making you think that you are the only one in their lives, then to find out that they have husbands or boyfriends..they just don't wear their rings all the time, so how do you know? I believe in what you say...honesty, trust and reliablity are very large issues in a relationship. I have been honest with everyone I have had a relationship with and don't hide anything...but that doesn't work if they aren't willing also. You say that women move on more gracefully than men...well yes they do, because they could care less about the men they are taking down...they don't care who they are hurting...they could care less...That is why men could tend to hold grudges and have that chip on their shoulders...after all, who wants to be hurt like that again...I sure as hell know that I don't...and I have been, a couple of times. Due to women who could care less, but got what they wanted...then left. Now I do not mean all women that is for sure, only the women that I have met and been involved in, but it does work both ways msmom2 and reascal57...it works both ways. I would love to find a woman who isn't like that, but it isn't easy around here....and I am Hopeful in Canada, also.
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