Replies to '*A Dr. Phil Prime Time Special: Love Smart*'

 mbberry, I want to thank you for stating what I have been saying to others around my area for years.  I often get asked why I am not married or have a girlfriend, by women.   Well you have given the answer.  Whenever I see a woman I may like to meet, it turns out, without a doubt, that they are looking for 'those kinds of guys'...you know, tall, model type, six pack...etc..   Heck, why is a woman, 4'11", looking for a guy that is over 6'0"?  I am 5'6", why am I not tall enough?  It is crazy what women are always looking for...they want a guy that is perfect.  Well let me tell all the ladies out there, there is no 'perfect', no matter how high you put your standards...there is a 'perfect' though if you toss those standards away and come back to reality. 

 I agree with you mbberry, those women out there are just not choosing us. 

There's a reason why women don't go out with guys like you, and it has nothing to do with looks, or women "like" Ana.  Confidence is almost always the predominant attractive feature in somebody.  You don't strike me as confident.  And to tell you the truth, you don't strike me a very nice guy either.  Listening to you whine about how you're nice and then don't get what you want out of it means you're not being nice because that's who you are you're being nice to get what you want.  Are you still that nice to a woman even when you know there's no chance she'll ever go out with you?  And if you're not attractive to the opposite sex, it's probably also because you don't percieve yourself to be worth it.  Ask yourself:  would you want to date you?  If the answer is no, then why would anybody else?