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August 15, 2005, 10:51 pm PDT
101160
Quote From: 101160hi there thanks i hope i spelled your name right !anyhow yes i agree she needs a pat on the back him i also agree needs a swift kick in the rear,and even that probably won't phase him .Its like he has no emotions at all.I hate when he just ignores her and makes her feel small and has the nerve to tell her that she does nothing all day .Just because he has a 9to5 job sitting on his ass she does more in a day he would ever be able to do in a week or if not more.He has this holier than thou attitude and really religious and there is nothing wrong with religion but my god there has to be a limit on the amount of kids you have.So she warned him that he better do something if she couldn't use birth control but she says he won't talk for days at a time if she pisses him off.well i told her what is the odds if she pisses him off?he doesn't talk to her anyway.She finally after all these years finally taking a stand for herself .sshe goes out even though he won't .she goes to family functions although he won't .what an ass hole he is a plain asshole!!she deserves so much more than that.oh well what can you do when you love someone?thanks for the post.cathy Wasn't really sure why I was coming to this particular board til I read your last message. If this guy thinks he is pleasing God with his attitude and the way he treats his wife, he is dead wrong. I am a Christian and my Bible tells husbands to love their wives as Christ loved the church and Christ sure the heck did not manipulate and abuse the church, he loved the church so much that he gave his life for it. We are taught to love and honor one another and he needs tog et off his high horse and start treating his wife with love and respect. The Bible does not talk about how many kids to have and all that but I do believe that God wants us to use the brain that He gave us. This woman really does need to step up to the plate and take control of her own body. he is purposely harming her in more ways then one and he doesn't seem to care and if the doctor has told her not to have more children and he is not doing anything to help this from happpening, this is all the proof she really needs to know that he doesn't care. I realize that she might care for this guy, she definetly deserves to be treated better then this. If I were her, If I were in her position, I would not be having sex with this guy, Maybe you can get her to read these messages, He is not treating her as God would have him to, he needs to read the new testament about marriage. No where does it say that the husband is to abuse his wife and mentally drain her. Maybe get him to read this message, I'll tell him what a christian husband is like and it certainly is not him. I know guys like this who take the scripture out of context so they don't have to feel responsible to help take care of his family, including his wife. He definetly is a loser when it comes to being a husband and father and he definetly is not the christian role model. She is to be admired and my prayers are with her.
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