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August 16, 2005, 5:47 am PDT
JETTAV
Quote From: jettavWasn't really sure why I was coming to this particular board til I read your last message. If this guy thinks he is pleasing God with his attitude and the way he treats his wife, he is dead wrong. I am a Christian and my Bible tells husbands to love their wives as Christ loved the church and Christ sure the heck did not manipulate and abuse the church, he loved the church so much that he gave his life for it. We are taught to love and honor one another and he needs tog et off his high horse and start treating his wife with love and respect. The Bible does not talk about how many kids to have and all that but I do believe that God wants us to use the brain that He gave us. This woman really does need to step up to the plate and take control of her own body. he is purposely harming her in more ways then one and he doesn't seem to care and if the doctor has told her not to have more children and he is not doing anything to help this from happpening, this is all the proof she really needs to know that he doesn't care. I realize that she might care for this guy, she definetly deserves to be treated better then this. If I were her, If I were in her position, I would not be having sex with this guy, Maybe you can get her to read these messages, He is not treating her as God would have him to, he needs to read the new testament about marriage. No where does it say that the husband is to abuse his wife and mentally drain her. Maybe get him to read this message, I'll tell him what a christian husband is like and it certainly is not him. I know guys like this who take the scripture out of context so they don't have to feel responsible to help take care of his family, including his wife. He definetly is a loser when it comes to being a husband and father and he definetly is not the christian role model. She is to be admired and my prayers are with her. I AGREE WITH YOU ON ALL YOUR POINTS .SHE SHOULD READ SOMETHING LIKE THIS BECAUSE SHE IS A GOD GIVING PERSON AS YOU CAN SEE FROM MY POST ABOUT HER AND HOW WONDERFUL SHE IS WITH ALL HER KIDS.SHE DOES LOVE HIM AND HE CAN BE A GREAT SUPPORTIVE CARING PERSON BUT!!!ITS TO THE COMMUNITY NOT HIS FAMILY.HE CAN GIVE 100%TO THE CHURCH THE COMMUNITY ALL HIS VOLUNTEER ORGANIZATIONS ,AS A MATTER OF FACT HE WAS NOMINATED CITZEN OF THE YEAR THIS YEAR AT OUR ANNUAL FESTIVAL FOR ALL THE OUT STANDING WORK IN THE COMMUNITY .WELL THERE WERE A LIST THAT WAS A MILE LONG AND I WAS THINKING WOW YOU KNOW MAYBE HE SHOULD HAVE BEEN NOMINATED ALONG TIME AGAO.BUT!!WHEN HE GOT UP TO EXCEPT HIS AWARD,WHO DID HE THANK ,THE COMMUNITY ,THE PEOPLE WHO NOMINATED HIM TO BEGIN WITH, THE CO-WORKERS .EVERYONE BUT HIS OWN FAMILY NOT EVEN HIS OWN WIFE.I WAS SO PISSED AND SO WAS ALOT OF THE FAMILY.NOW DON'T GET ME WRONG HE IS NOT EVEN A MAN TO GLOAT HE SHARED THAT AWARD WITH ALL VOLUNTEERS THAT HELP OUT IN ANYWAY.BUT DID NOT SHARE WITH HIS OWN WIFE.AS A MATTER OF FACT HE WOULDN'T SPEAK TO HER FOR A COUPLE OF DAYS BECAUSE SHE NEW HE WAS NOMINATED AND DIDN'T TELL HIM ,THEY HAD TO TRICK HIM TO GET HIM THERE.SO HOW ABOUT THAT.I JUST DON'T KNOW SOME PEOPLE HAVE A NERVE.THANKS FOR YOUR RESPONSE JETTAV.GOOD TO SEE YOU AGAIN.TAKE CARE AND MAY GOD RICHLY BLESS YOU.CATHY
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