Quote From: jo_mama2 I can truly relate to "gumby girl" and "beertie" and wish I could contact them and maybe get some advice because I have been in abusive relationships and was abandoned by my twins father when I became pregnant. I have been fighting for child support from that deadbeat abuser for 15 years now. My daughters will be 16 in August and he owes thousands in back support. The state where the order is from says that they don't have the manpower to find these guys and make them pay, so in the meantime, my girls have been deprived of some basic things and I am so outraged that I have to keep fighting this and the stress from this and the other adversities I have endured has caused so many health problems that I am now on SSI. More needs to be done to find and force these deadbeats to pay, even if it means to be in jail, forced to work (like huber) and have their wages all go to the custodial parent. Then the abusive relationships I've "survived" further complicate things financially. My two worst relationships caused emotional, psychological, physical, and financial damage, suffering, and scars for myself and my girls. I am an advocate for abused women and children and am contemplating starting a website to help women and children in situations like mine. I have an amazing story to tell Dr. Phil...he would be in awe if he knew my life story. Now I'm ready to share it with anyone who wants to listen. So, gumby girl or beertie, send me some feedback if you can. I could use all the help I can get at this point. Thanks!
Wow.. how long was he around before you got pregnant??
I really is too bad that this guy agreed to have children with you and then once you were pregnant he left.. what happened?? What did he say made him leave??
I would be outraged too .. not paying for the kids you agreed to have is an outrage.. and you said it .
we need to hear more of your story..
