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August 16, 2005, 5:06 pm PDT
This sounds like my school life
Quote From: dumbhunkieYes--it's an old show -- and an even older problem --and there is no universal solution. My youngest daughter age 16 -- has been attacked at school so often that she will no longer attend---she was forced out of class after class by students who, knowing that she was severely allergic, deliberately sprayed her with fragrance --and all the teachers did was to send her (the victim) to the health odffice--and I got a call that she has had an asthma attack and needed to go home. ---This was nearly every day--so you can imagine how her grades were--to say nothing fo her feelings of insecurity. After contacting everyone I could think of in an effort to get the school's help, I finally was advised to allow the system to give her homebound schooling --my last conversation with the principal centered around the last "attack" she suffered at school ---and his idea of "fixing" the problem was to tell the girls (perps) that they shouldn't do that --and if they did uit again, they would be sent home---yeah right--so my daughter has to stop breathing andthey get to go home --she goes to the hospital ---not a solution. The School Board has r4ecenttly banned the use of aerosol fragrance in the school building --starting this school year---but they banned cekll phones a few years ago --and all the kids carry them anyway--so I have no reason to believe she'll be any safer this year --and that doesn't even consider the emotional impact that being deliberately and repeatedly attacked has done ---she is terrified --and rightly so since it involves her ability to breath The girl who sent me to the hospital for the last time now has two children and never graduated from high school. I on the other hand am 22 graduated from college and just bought a house on my own. I spent 6th-8th grade crying and hiding from my classmates. I left in 9th grade went to a private school and returned to the public school for the remaining high school years. When I returned I made up my mind to be proud of myself and know that at the end of the day if God was pleased with me that was all that mattered.
I now have to fight my feelings of pride when i go home. All the people who made fun of me and did horrible things are still in our small town and not happy with their lives. I on the other hand am so happy and thankful that this made me stronger.
My mom told me every morning "this to shall pass" and it did.
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