Quote From: jaybug6The only reason no wedding band is a big deal is because of Grant's motives for not wearing it. My husband tried to wear his ring for the first couple months we were married, he hated it. 10 years later we are still very happy and he doesn't wear a ring. Commitment is more than a band. My sister's husband broke his band doing some construction work and she had a new one on his finger before you could blink. I just don't see the big deal. I lost my ring and now have a new band, I wear it most the time, but I don't care and neither does my husband when my finger is naked, because we are both secure with each other to know a ring doesn't make a marriage.
Grant is definitely sending a signal to Kelly by not wearing his wedding ring. I DON'T WANT TO BE MARRIED!!!!
If Grant thinks that if Kelly turns into the Stepford Wife he desires that he will be satisfied, WRONG...
Some people are void of emotion and truly do not know how to give and receive love. Kelly is a doll and should think about ending this marriage so that she can find a man who is capable of giving her the love that she so desperately craves and she will be able to return that love. Loving this man is a waste of time, he doesn't have a clue as to the meaning of support, respect, acceptance and most of all love. He's a sad case for sure.
I know Grant, I was married to a man just like him and when our children got older they would disappear as soon as he walked through the door. The only one in the family who tolerated him was the dog, but that ended when he tried to hit me when I filed for divorce after 18 years of suffering.
Grant has destroyed Kelly's spirit, you can see it in her expression and in her eyes.