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I completely agree.  I do think Kelly is cooking, cleaning, and caring for her children just fine.  I think the real problem is that Grant has unrealistic expectations.  I think no matter how clean the house is or how the meal is cooked it will never be good enough for him.  He has a big problem with his expectations.  Dr. Phil should send Kelly away for a week long vacation and let Grant be the stay at home dad for that week, with no cheating (grandparents help).  He should get a realist taste of what Kelly does everyday.  He seems to think that she doesn't do any work, she just plays with the kids. 

I do know about this first hand.  My husband used to come home and expect everything to be cleaned up, I mean everything.  Unrealistic at the time considering we had two small children.  He didn't even want toys in the livingroom.  He would come home at 5:00 pm in the summer and expect that the kids would have all the toys cleaned up in the back yard, he would get angry.  Fortunately for us he realized that this is unrealistic and he changed his focus.