You know what, the first time I ever heard someone call a lady a Bitch was when she was smart enough to turn him down when he was hitting on her. So tell me why turing a man down for sex makes a woman a rude, bad attitude, mean, immature person?
I do believe there is a difference between what some people consider as Bitches! I am a strong woman and I stand up for what I believe in and feel is right. I have been called a bitch more than once and I am not always offended by it! Sometimes just because someone does not agree with you they call you a Bitch or an Ass. How does that make that person better than you? I mean the one calling the names is the rude, bad attitude, mean and most definitely immature. I mean name calling is kind of what kids do in school. We are supposed to be adults and name calling is a bit below all true adults.
I do not feel I have an attitude problem and I know for a fact that I am NOT all that! I just stand up for what I believe and I fight for everything I want! I have never ever been cruel or hateful to anyone. I have, however stood my ground when I am being attacked. I will do anything for my husband and our children. So I suppose if that makes me a Bitch, I will wear that name with honor and go on with my life. More times than not when someone refers to me as a Bitch I say "Thanks I do my best!" smile and move on with my life. Now if my husband ever was to think I was being one then I would have to take a step back and reexamine what I was doing at the point that would make him feel that way! As for most people in this world...I do not care what they think of me! All that matters to me is that I have my friends and my family and they know what I am all about!
Take Care,
Dena
