Quote From: lazydayzYeah, but that's not Grant's reason. His reason is wearing the ring means he's conceding to his wife being perfect. WTF? That's not ok! My husband doesn't wear his ring either, but for reasons that have nothing to do with the state of our marriage. Apples and oranges.
I don't see Grant's wearing his wedding ring as a concession that his wife id perfect. But, rather as a pretense that he's happy when he really isn't. There's no sense in pretending to be happy when he isn't. Especially if resentment is festering beneath the surface. Only to erupt later. Better to honestly admit to unhappiness and work it out than to bury it and let it fester. Maybe Grant doesn't feel free to discuss his feelings. And, theredfore, shows them by not wearing his wedding ring.
