If all you got from what I said is the part about the man with sex on the brain, then you missed my whole point! I am just trying to point out that many people will call a strong woman a bitch just because she is strong or just for breathing! I have corrected my own husband for that very thing! I mean when you are driving down the street minding your own business and you may be going a bit slower than you should be someone will call you a STUPID BITCH...now tell me where the lady being called out her nakme is being rude, mean, etc.? Have you never witnessed such...a woman who is NOT being bitchy but is getting called one just for the meer fact that she is a woman and someone has nothing better to do than call her that?!
I think everybody has been guilty of that at some point or another....even me and although I am not proud of the fact I am willing to admit it. To me the word is just that a WORD. If someone calls me that it does not bother me...they may just be having a bad day and need someone to take it out on and I am the first one they come across to unload on! Whatever their definition of a bitch is may not be what I consider to be a bad thing!
You can be sweet as sweet is and if you disagree with some people the first thought (and ususally the first word) they have for you is to label you a BITCH! To me that is just childish and immature. I suppose that maybe you and I am prime examples of the point I am trying to make..... people have differnet thoughts on what exactly constatutes being a bitch. Yes, I do agree that when someone is being hateful, rude, mean, and somewhat immature they are being bitchy BUT they may not be a bitch. We all have our days when we are a bit on the bitchy side but that does not give anyone the right to "label" us as one at all times! That is what happens though. What about all the times when we are nice, considerate, helpful, and accepting.....are we still Bitches since at one time we acted a bit on the bitchy side??
Thanks for your time! :-)
Dena
