Quote From: audy412I guess I will never understand why women are so stupid, and I include myself in that........I put up with my ex and his girlfriends for years. I "thought" it was the love I had for him and it was insecuity in myself.
Now, years later, when I look back I feel like an idiot. I wasted a lot of my life for NOTHING! I look at him now and wonder what in the hell I ever saw in him......... It is very sad what we do to ourselfs.
I want to say to Tracy and her husband. There is hope. I have been there. I am just now after many years learning to forgive and to trust again. I never thought in a life time that it could be done. As long as there is that true love and you have a heart of gold tracy you can believe in miracles. Your husband has to also come forward and be as clean and honest about everything as there is to be. I went thru this 6 months after I was married. It is the most painful thing you can go thru. I do believe that GOD does not give us no more than what our bodies and minds can handle. There is times you wonder why me. Don't feel sorry for yourself, I did for years. It is not worth it. I even thought about sucicide. I finally snapped out of my depression and started praying and talking to god every night to help me, decide to either deal with it or to leave the situation. So I finally talked with my husband about everything after the cold shoulder for 3 years and we are working so very hard on everything. It can work with alot of strength, support and just everyday talking thru things. No we dont go to counseling. We are doing this on our own and it is working out. We dont even go to church. I just pray and talk to GOD on my own each and every night to help me with things and since I have been doing that things have goten better. So don't let people discourage you. You can make it if you both put 100% into it. It is a very hard task. You can do it. If I am doing it any one can do it. Good luck to both of you. I hope you make it.
Sand in WV
