Replies to '08/08 Cheaters'

I would be more concerned about the abusive behavior than the infidelity.  I agree that you should make whatever preparations you need to to end this relationship.

I think it is easier said than done.  To tell someone to leave is the easy part.  When you are in the situation you do realize that it is easier to tell someone what to do when you either have not been there or the type of relationship is different.  Woman try to leave many times before they really do.  Realizing it is the first step.  That is where I am and it is very hard even to be there.