Quote From: manofgoodsI'm a 23 year-old man, and I know what it's like to be lied to. When I was back in high school, I had a friend that I known in the neighborhood for 5-6 years. But then came a time for that. I've never, ever had a real relationship before, but this is kind of different. When the time came for my senior prom, I asked her out. Her response was, "No, I'm sorry, I have a boyfriend." Come to find out later, she didn't really have a boyfriend at all! Then before you know it, I found out that she had taken someone else out to the prom! Can you believe that? I was broken hearted when I found that out. But luckily, my mother knew a friend who would take me out. I then had a pretty good time. But I still managed to keep in touch with my friend now, and she now has about 3 kids. I have none, but at least I'm waiting for the right person to commit a relationship to(I'm waiting to get married before having kids). Hopefully, you can see it from my experience. No matter how many times people managed to hurt you, you must learn to forgive.
to forgive, quite another to trust.
Do I forgive my husband for his weakness? Of course I do. It doesn't help me to trust him any more. The only thing that will help that is complete and total honesty at all times about all things.
