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February 27, 2006, 6:14 pm PST
I've had it
Quote From: marihop60That's a really hard thing to do having lots of turmoil and going thru school for RN. Can you prove he made all the $$? How is he as a father? I don't have any advice for you but my heart is with you. I'm in 3rd semester Pediatrics after Med/Surg Hades! He is good to the boys (3 of them) 16, 11, 8. I've always been the "glue" of the family. I have given 17 years to the marriage and my children...All I wanted to do was obtain an education so that I could begin a career of my own. I can't prove the $$, and I am worried that after court this Wed., he will come out ahead. He has always been sole supporter. I would've done my part financially after I finished. I only have one year left, I have been working on this for 3 years already...I can't see throwing it all away. Gosh, if only I knew what to do. I want what is best for my children and I know if I move them in with their father, they will be upset but will adjust. I would not be absent and they would be close by (six miles). It's not my idea of the perfect situation, but one year will fly by and I will be financially set and could take care of them. School is tough even when living in a stable environment, but I tell you, I am more determined right now and want to see this through. Thanks for your thoughts. If you think of anything, let me know.
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