Quote From: chdsgrlJulie,
I understand why they focused on Grant so much. I agree that he has a lot of things that need to be worked on.
Some of my comments don't have anything to do with Grant and Kelly. Like the one you replied to was just a comment in regards to one poster who said that she stays home, but doesn't feel like lifting a finger because as long as she's nice, that's all that matters.
I don't think it matters how old you are when you get "it". As long as you get it, that's all that matters.
I'm glad your husband helps out. I think husbands should!!
Diana
Please forgive me if this is redundant....I posted a message and the screen went blank so I'm trying again.
When I saw you on the first show, I found you kind of offensive (I realize they edit for time and effect). After reading your posts, I realize I agree with you on many issues. I have also found that trying to keep my home reasonably clean and organized keeps us all more peaceful and gives us more time to enjoy each other.
The one issue that I'm still struggling with is why you think you have the right to have a problem with how someone else lives their life. If that poster literally doesn't lift a finger, and her husband is happy and the family is in harmony, well OK!
I have a cleaning lady every other week. We also have a lawn and pool service. I could list all our reasons why and the circumstances of our life, and you would most likely say "Oh, well it's okay in THAT case." But the bottom line is, you don't have the RIGHT to have a problem with my cleaning lady. Just like I don't have the right to have a problem with your 20 minute house cleaning! (I don't really want lessons, but if you could get it in a pill form.......LOL)
I have come to the conclusion that you do have some valuable insights and ideas. If you could tone down the judgement, I think people would be more receptive to what you have to say.
My reason for mentioning Bree's age was simply the point that if she found Mr Right at young age, she probably didn't have many negative relationship experiences. The same could be said of a 40 year old who was still happy with her high school sweetheart.
Julie
