Temporary fix:
Avoid her. Get caller ID so you don't have to answer the phone when she calls.
If she comes by, give her a minute to start her yap, then say, "ooo, I have to check my laundry"--then head for the laundry room. -- don't come back.
Think up a few other excuses to get away.
Smile and agree to whatever, then go about your business as you see fit.
Don't tell her any important details of your life. -- I'm the 2nd wife, my husband went to an attorney other than the "family attorney" and drew up a new will. We aren't telling anyone about the new will.
Try to hang in there!!
