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August 18, 2005, 5:34 am PDT
not always brighter on the other side
Quote From: latingirlWe all should listen to that Gut feeling like you! It's usually right on the money. Sorry to hear about this situation. Whether emotional or physical, it hurts. I would be even more hurt by your husbands actions, he needs to understand that if he speaks with her still, well that is just totally inappropriate in every way. That is totally disrespecting your feelings. And if he wants you to trust him (which will take some effort on your part) he needs to step up and do what is right. Children are loving people and will not understand at first but in time they will adapt. You need to have a serious talk with him about your future and if he intends on having you and the kids a part of it, he needs to fix this situation and therapy is probably in order here as well.
=( Sorry to hear about your situation. This can turn into something good, if you try =)
you should listen to the gut feeling and ask him if he wants to stay in the marriage or leave i had my gut feeling from oct-may of this year and my husband of 13yrs and two preteens had a affair with a so called freind .now we are working on are marriage and the kids are happier two.I feel for you and the little ones been there. and go with our gut thats what my parents and in-laws told me .they were even shocked about the whole thing 2. Good luck . :)
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