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February 28, 2006, 7:38 pm PST
What an ego!
Quote From: jim1970If you don't want us to cheat or buy "Just 18", then act like wives. Remember what the Bible says; that the person who caused the sin faces a greater punishment than the person who committed the sin. Hence, if you refuse to let your husband touch you and he cheats on you with his secretary, you've no one to blame BUT YOURSELF because men NEED sex.
I mean, you wouldn't let us do our business on the rug, right? It's the same thing. It's a natural function that WE GUYS HAVE TO HAVE AND CAN'T LIVE WITHOUT.
I have a friend of mine who is 79. Back in the day when he was married, his wife wouldn't let him touch her because she thought sex was disgusting and only for procreation. He was lucky to get a twice a year. This forced him to go to every nudie bar in the San Fernando Valley.
He says that she STILL doesn't get it.
Yes, it's wrong for men to cheat and it's wrong for us to use porn-especially if we are married. HOWEVER, we would do neither one if WOMEN PUT OUT. That is the most self-absorbed load of entitlement I have ever heard. Well guess what, women have needs too. We need to be loved beyond what we can do for you. If a husband doesn't tell his wife at least weekly how treasured and loved and beautiful she is, some other man will and he may get the sex. But guess what? For the most part, we don't cheat. Because we see that sex is not food or oxygen; it isn't a need. The sex drive may be second only to hunger and breathing, but it is not a need. Any primate capable of walking upright is also capable of staying upright when aroused and in the company of the preferred gender. If that weren't true, rape wouldn't be a crime.
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