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March 1, 2006, 6:36 am PST
i agree
Quote From: LuccibI've seen a million of these "great" parents who seem to think they're kids are just so "wonderful" They usually have no idea what the kid is up to or what they've done to the other kid. If they are confronted they unconditionally protect the child whether they are guilty or not. My disciplined children are now grown and I can tell you that the undiisciplined child grows into an undisciplined adult with no one there to stand up for their errors and bad bahaviors they are lost. Children need to know what's expected in the real world not just at home with mommmy in "fantasyland". Some of my daughters childhood friends are still home living with mommy because their boss was unfair, the drive was too long, they shouldnt have to work that hard, they need a vacation........................... my husband is like thar, he has no idea just how nasty hiand mean his daughter is. when you talk to him about it, he gets real defensive and protects her. for instance, i am her step mother, i was cooking dinner and she kept flinging rubber bands at me ( she is 10 years old), i asked her to stop, she would not. i knocked on the bathroom door and asked herndad if he could please ask her to stop flinging rubber bands at me for on had hit me in the face and stung. he asked me to stop making up things on her. so i went proceed to cook dinener and skje kept it up. well i picked up the rubber band and flung it back a her, it landed in her face. she started to cry and ran to her dad. i told her she ouldnt stop and if she didnt want to receive it back then not to dish it out. thats just a shorten version. parents need to listen to both sides of the stories then go from there not always take there childs side.
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