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February 28, 2006, 11:39 am PST
i am the woman in the same situation
Quote From: rockmeHello,
I have heard about this problem with many couples. The wife does not feel as attractive as she used to because she has put on weight - she doesn't want to have sex or do it with the lights on; or her partner pleases her in every way, but she does not return the favor. It's sad, but it's pretty common.
I have heard my guy friends tell me that they satisfy their wives, but the wives refuse to give a little oral sex in return. I tell them that their wives are just plain selfish, and that they should talk about it if it's going to get any better. Sometimes, sex is used as a weapon...it only happens when the person in control wants it, using sex to get whatever he/she wants. I saw some apes at the San Diego Zoo that did the same thing. The male had food that the female wanted, so she gave him some tail, and he gave her some food. LOL! I feel really bad because my husband is so into me, and he swears no matter what and no matter where I turn him on. I think he is handsome, sweet, and very loving. I just don't have a sexual desire for him. I love him very much. He's always wanting sex and I could go forever without it. But he gets mad b/c during our 3 year seperation I was very premiscuous, and he knows about that and he gets mad at me and then makes me feel guilty, so I have guilt sex and say fine but make it a quick one. What am I supposed to do? And also I have no problem with using the backspace button.
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