Quote From: jenoc99I wish you the very best with your court date- you are a very smart woman to do everything the legal way! You are so right to get every agreement in writing and legaly binding- from your other post, I thought you were just taking his word for it.
I know how difficult it is to get through school and become an RN- my husband did it a few years ago, it was also a long time wish for him. He now is in a job that is so fullfilling to him and life is very happy- you deserve that, too. It is so awesome that you are fullfilling your life long dream and I congratulate you for now allowing this jerk to drag you down!! It can be difficult even with a supportive family environment, so to have someone working against you instead of with you must be draining.
I also want to point out that you are setting an excellent example for your children by finishing school- you are the strongest female roll-model in their lives, and you are setting the bar for the type of woman that they will seek out later in life as a mate. You are so strong to have the courage to get out of this toxic relationship now, I know it isn't easy, but you know its the right thing to do. My thoughts are with you, keep us posted!!
Wow, I would really like to thank you for your encouragement in your words. I appreciate the confidence. My boys are my life they are 19, 16, 11, & 8 and I have always told them that my job as their mom is to raise productive men for society, men who would cherish their wives and children and give unconditional love. They are my biggest fans in my pursuit to become an RN. Thank you all so much for your help. I will definitely keep you posted, Court is tomorrow March 1, 2006. I have a funny feeling he is in the "winners circle", if you know what I mean....The good guy doesn't always win....Oh, but....maybe in the long run they do. Thanks again...Will let you know how it turned out...
