Replies to 'Ready for Marriage?'

Honey, you sound so bitter and angry. Since you are here on the message board, you are probably passively seeking some helpfull advice, so here it is: find a therepist who specializes in self-esteem issues for yourself.  

It sounds as though you had difficulty approaching girls when you were younger, therefore, they rejected your advances.  

I think that our society has over-exposed people to the myth of the "fairy tale" man who sweeps a woman off of her feet, etc.. Essentially setting every young male and female up for dissapointment, because those things never happen... but it doesn't stop people from trying. Our society is over-sexualized and puts too much emphasis on physical characteristics. But, when you know better, you do better- and for many people, they don't know better until later on in life after they have had some life experience.  

You will feel much better if you can learn how to forgive. Learn how to be the bigger person. We are all human, even  you aren't perfect. 

Honey, you sound so bitter and angry. Since you are here on the message board, you are probably passively seeking some helpfull advice, so here it is: find a therepist who specializes in self-esteem issues for yourself.  

It sounds as though you had difficulty approaching girls when you were younger, therefore, they rejected your advances.  

I think that our society has over-exposed people to the myth of the "fairy tale" man who sweeps a woman off of her feet, etc.. Essentially setting every young male and female up for dissapointment, because those things never happen... but it doesn't stop people from trying. Our society is over-sexualized and puts too much emphasis on physical characteristics. But, when you know better, you do better- and for many people, they don't know better until later on in life after they have had some life experience.  

You will feel much better if you can learn how to forgive. Learn how to be the bigger person. We are all human, even  you aren't perfect. 

Honey, you sound so bitter and angry. Since you are here on the message board, you are probably passively seeking some helpfull advice, so here it is: find a therepist who specializes in self-esteem issues for yourself.  

It sounds as though you had difficulty approaching girls when you were younger, therefore, they rejected your advances.  

I think that our society has over-exposed people to the myth of the "fairy tale" man who sweeps a woman off of her feet, etc.. Essentially setting every young male and female up for dissapointment, because those things never happen... but it doesn't stop people from trying. Our society is over-sexualized and puts too much emphasis on physical characteristics. But, when you know better, you do better- and for many people, they don't know better until later on in life after they have had some life experience.  

You will feel much better if you can learn how to forgive. Learn how to be the bigger person. We are all human, even  you aren't perfect. 

Honey, you sound so bitter and angry. Since you are here on the message board, you are probably passively seeking some helpfull advice, so here it is: find a therepist who specializes in self-esteem issues for yourself.  

It sounds as though you had difficulty approaching girls when you were younger, therefore, they rejected your advances.  

I think that our society has over-exposed people to the myth of the "fairy tale" man who sweeps a woman off of her feet, etc.. Essentially setting every young male and female up for dissapointment, because those things never happen... but it doesn't stop people from trying. Our society is over-sexualized and puts too much emphasis on physical characteristics. But, when you know better, you do better- and for many people, they don't know better until later on in life after they have had some life experience.  

You will feel much better if you can learn how to forgive. Learn how to be the bigger person. We are all human, even  you aren't perfect. 

Honey, you sound so bitter and angry. Since you are here on the message board, you are probably passively seeking some helpfull advice, so here it is: find a therepist who specializes in self-esteem issues for yourself.  

It sounds as though you had difficulty approaching girls when you were younger, therefore, they rejected your advances.  

I think that our society has over-exposed people to the myth of the "fairy tale" man who sweeps a woman off of her feet, etc.. Essentially setting every young male and female up for dissapointment, because those things never happen... but it doesn't stop people from trying. Our society is over-sexualized and puts too much emphasis on physical characteristics. But, when you know better, you do better- and for many people, they don't know better until later on in life after they have had some life experience.  

You will feel much better if you can learn how to forgive. Learn how to be the bigger person. We are all human, even  you aren't perfect.