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March 3, 2006, 10:07 pm PST
Breaking Up
Quote From: newlife01thank you so much for responding to my message. Its so comforting to know that there is someone else out there who understands my dilemma. I have obtained a therapist and am talking with her about my doubts.She has even had a session with me, my significant other and my daughter. The outlook looks positive but as you said i am watching for my daughter's reaction and using those to make my final decision. Because above all else, all i have in this world are myself and my little girl.Once again thank you for taking the time to reach out to me, it was much appreciated. I am so glad. I have a wonderful therapist who has guided me through all of this and I finally told him to move out the other day. My daughter has been having dreams about being cruel to him and then tells me she knows it isn't right but she does not like him. I've had a good discussion with her about this and told her that I trust what she is feeling and no matter what I love her and know she is telling me from her heart. Children are gifts from god and I belieive he can speak through them in is ways and I have a tremendous faith in that and pray about it. Usually I have an answer instantly. I am just really glad for you that you are listening to her as I did because so many people out there put themselves first before their kids and it is heart wrenching to see what eventually happens. I wish you the best.
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