Your message isabit.. well contradicting. On one hand you say you know that special person is out there for you and sooner or later you'll find them. But on the other hand you point out all of your 'weaknesses' and try to let people feel sorry for you and agree that indeed it is very hard for you to find that special person.
Your whole message, except that last sentence is very negative. You portray the people you meet as supervisual "only want money, sex, goodlooking man", you feel your life just sucks "you don't want to be in my shoes" and on top of that you talk badly about the way you look "not good looking / disabled". Do you honestly think with that attitude your special person will just fall madly in love with you just by the sight of you?
No, and you know why? Not because of your looks, but because of your vision on life. You have such a negative look on life that you are driving people away. People will not want to come close to a person that is thinking they are not worth one second of their time. Because that is what your message is portraying. A lot of selfpity.
Look at your GOOD qualities and accept the lesser qualities. No person is perfect. Everyone has their own flaws. And just because you are disabled or not so goodlooking, doesn't make it any harder for you to find a good mate, than a person who isn't disabled and 'better' goodlooking.
LOOKS aren't that important anyway. Yes, it is the first thing you see, when meeting someone. But honestly, do you judge someone by their cover? Do you run away from someone who doesn't look like a Claudia Schiffer, or a Tom Cruise? I would say not.
Make yourself be important and goodlooking and a good party TO YOU.
Because the person you have portrayed to be in your message, will not be able to keep a special person in their life, simply because they themselves don't think they're too special.
Petra
Petra
First off do you wear my shoes ?
do you how what my ups and downs are in life ?
so how can you judge a person unless you deep in there shoe and walk the road they walk .
let people feel sorry for you and agree YOUR NUNTS IF YOUR THINKING THAT
NOPE IM NOT perfect AND No person is perfect ether but sound like you are .finding that special person
.well only GOD konw what is what not you .
special nope im not sorry . if this is dr.phil then he bnetter put on my shoe befor he judge me .as for driving /money .around here if you dont have wheels you dont get around .
as for my weaknesses well li had met some very nice lady here lots of times but like i said if you dont have wheels around here you are in a bind .
i would love to tell you all more about me but well you already judge me so what can i say .i feel sorry for a person like you who can say stuff and not find out what a person is about .
as for why i like a person for what they are on the in side and not what they are on the out side .is there heart /mind and what they beleave in
but you say stuff and not thinking what is this person like well i dont know what to tell you .
