It sounds like we are in the similar situation. We are now at the point where have stopped speaking with the toxic in-laws. Both the emotional and verbal abuse had to stop. When we didn't answer the phone, they sent letters, or even worse, turned thier own daughter and her husband "against us". Dramatic sounding I know, but not sure how else to discribe it.
Love my husband SO MUCH, and blessed to have him in my life and support me. We have thought about moving, and maybe that to will help even more.
It feels like we are making the right choice. Glad it has worked for you, and I can only hope my husbands siblings see that life is so much easier without the chaos too.
