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July 28, 2005, 2:24 am PDT

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I've been married 26 years and my husband left me and the children and moved back in with his parents......it's been 3 months.....I believe in until death do us part.I am praying and waiting for him to come home.

How scary this is....our youngest child starts Kindergarten and Daddy is not at home.

I would love to hear from spouses who have abandoned their family...What lies did you tell yourself to make yourself believe it was OK to do this ?

And if you reconciled...what did it take and how long did it take ???

 

I believe in prayer.  I DO NOT believe in being stupid.  Get legal counsel now.

 

I hope others will have the answer you are looking for.

 
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December 6, 2006, 3:16 pm PST

Divorce

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I've been married 26 years and my husband left me and the children and moved back in with his parents......it's been 3 months.....I believe in until death do us part.I am praying and waiting for him to come home.

How scary this is....our youngest child starts Kindergarten and Daddy is not at home.

I would love to hear from spouses who have abandoned their family...What lies did you tell yourself to make yourself believe it was OK to do this ?

And if you reconciled...what did it take and how long did it take ???

I was just wondering if your husband has returned yet because my husband of 26 years also just left me but he moved in with his new girlfriend. It is tearing me apart We also have a 11 yr old son who is very upset with this. I would just like to know how you handle it and how everything worked out
 
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April 26, 2007, 5:15 pm PDT

divorce

Quote From: 24years

I've been married 26 years and my husband left me and the children and moved back in with his parents......it's been 3 months.....I believe in until death do us part.I am praying and waiting for him to come home.

How scary this is....our youngest child starts Kindergarten and Daddy is not at home.

I would love to hear from spouses who have abandoned their family...What lies did you tell yourself to make yourself believe it was OK to do this ?

And if you reconciled...what did it take and how long did it take ???

i have also been left alone .after my husband decided he wanted someone else after 27 yrs of marriage.the funny thing about it is no one seen it coming not even me. we were childhood sweethearts i married him at 15.and have loved him my whole life. he always said we were soul mates. i am devestated. we have 2 kids 4 and 13.which we had a very hard time having.he said he is just tired of responsibilties.i just dont know what to think ,we have never had problems before we were best friends and did everything together,and now hes gone. i feel like he just died. he is not the same person i know and love. yes he is turning 50 this year. maybe he is trying to prove he can get someone else.the one he left me for is 9 yrs older than me and 3 yrs older than him. i thought he would have went with someone younger.i still get up everyday and fix my hair and do my make up and tkake of my blessings[kids] god does give me strengh. i dont know what the future will hold i guess i have to wait and see it is sooo very hard,
 


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