Replies to 'Differing Sex Drives'

write such a thing....."get out. She's ruined".?  What is the matter with you?  He can have a perfectly loving relationship with this girl and have all his needs fulfilled in other ways.    As far as their sexual relationship is concerned, a good therapist could assist with that.  People come on this board to get advice in times of need, not to receive responses like the one you gave with such disregard for feelings.  You really should be ashamed of yourself.....

Maybe she has never had a person in her life that has taught her true intimacy. When i started dating my fiance, he was a wam, bam thank you maam kind of guy, and taught him all about foreplay, lighting candles, wonderful saxaphone music and it has been great since. he had just never learned about true intimacy. Couples have to communicate what is bugging them, and be honest. communication.....I know we have heard it over and over, but lack of is what killed my 23 year wonderful marriage. we stopped communicating. I have learned a lot in the 8 years since the divorce, and it's true...you have to be willing and able to talk about things. getting guys to do this is often very difficult.