Quote From: rover44 I'm not familiar with cheaters but I would guess they have low self-esteem and need lots of approval.This 3+ marriage never got out of the starting gate.Maybe the both of them should have 
taken a marriage course.The one thing I liked was that the young man showed REMORSE. 
It all depends what is wife wants,if she visions the future without him.I see some hope for them!! 
Good Luck 
How can a man whos been married for only 3 1/2 years say that he was looking for something new.THATS TERRIBLE..And childish...What does he think marriage is a game..But that couple should do everything to save their marriage...I think Robert will grow emtionnaly and I felt that he was really sorry...It will be hard for Ariana to trust him but with a lot of help I think that she will succeed...Robert has a lot of growing up to do...And the time is now...Good luck to them...