Have you tried to confront him with the heart? If so what did he say. If he verbally abusive, is he also mentally and physically abusive? What I asked myself about my marriage is "Do I want to save my marriage and if I do how can I? Can I ever trust him again? When I asked myself those questions they all came out as NO. I did a pros and cons list to see if staying with him would be good or bad? Maybe you should ask your self those same questions. A fter 22 years I know it will be hard to think about the pros and cons... do your childrern know what is happening and what do they say about it. Considering this is the second time I think its time to think about yourself, you are a strong woman, you have lived through this once, can you do it again... do you want to..ask your children (if they are old enough) for their opinion esspecially if they are seeing what is happening. I am not trying to be mean or anything else, I just wanted you to know that there is a Behind every cloud is a silver lining and a rainbow to brighten your day.
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