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March 2, 2006, 6:00 am PST
02/27 Twisted Love: The Aftermath
Quote From: manofgoodsIn my view, and I'm just saying this, If I'm with a woman in my first relationship, & she goes out & cheats on me, I should leave her. But then she will say to me "If you leave me, you will never get another woman as long as you live. No one else would want you." I've never been in a real relationship before, but I'm definitely waiting for the right woman to come into my life. I don't want to be hurt when a woman says that to me. What do you think? Is that message bringing me down into hurt & pain? For a man or woman to say that to anyone is ridiculous. Did you see the Dr. Phil show about mooches? Maybe that one would help you see that is absolutely not true. No matter what you look like, no matter what your personality, if you are looking you will find someone. Her bringing you down with a statement like that is nothing more than her showing her insecurity. She might as well say she thinks if you think any other woman would want you then you are going to leave her. Now it depends too on the context. An example would be a couple in my family. The husband ALWAYS burns the chicken when he cooks. Not he burnt chicken a few times, but he has burnt the chicken at least once a month for the past 20 years. Not the chickens a little dry, he burns it until the chicken has a black crust around it. His wife made chicken and brought it in and said to her husband Oh I don't know if you'll like it, not sure it's quite done enough for ya (jokingly). He made a comment about finding a woman who could cook some chicken (jokingly as well) and she replied oh go ahead she'd send you back with in the week (again not meaning any harm by it just playing around) Be assured though that someone saying that to you is no reflection on you.
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