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August 19, 2005, 6:33 pm PDT
chloe1
Quote From: chloe1I was molested by my brother for over 6 years. He started when I was in fifth grade and didn't stop until I broke down and told my boyfriend and mother. When I finally told someone, nothing really happened. He moved away a few months later with his girlfriend (now wife) who is in the air force. His wife has no idea. I need some advise on what to do. Should I tell her, and my father? I am afraid that he will hurt someone else. I struggle with what to do everyday. It is the last thing on my mind when I go to sleep, and the first thing on my mind when I wake up. Any advice would be greatly appreciated...thank you hope i spelled that right?if not my oppologies. I am so sorry for what you went through.Brother or not yes i would tell . how can i say that well have some abuse issues my self.not by brother though. He should be stopped sweetie before he does do it again and the next one might not be so lucky and what i mean by that is he might seriously hurt or kill someone else. You need to get counciling also to help you deal with this.Does your dad know?if not why?your mom and boyfriend know.His wife needs to know what she married then if she doesn't know because its not fair to her to have to live with the likes of that.Do they have children yet?If so i would be afraid that he might hurt a niece or nephew .And don't think for a min that he wouldn't ,just think if he can do the likes of that to his sister what he can do to his child. A inoscent child would not be able to defend themselves against the likes of him there are kids being abused as young as babies only months old so they do know who to attack don't think they don't. take a step and tell .i can't understand why your mom didn't do anything to begin with?or your boyfriend is he still your boyfriend?take care and good luck in what you decide.
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