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March 3, 2006, 10:50 am PST
One roof, two lives
Quote From: jenoc99Are you still staying with friends, or are you back under the same roof as your husband?
My advice to you is to continue counceling on your own. If he won't go, thats his loss- however, YOU could really benefit from the guidance of a professional who has heard this same story many times, so that you can move forward and enjoy a happy and healthy life. You deserve that! You don't deserve to hang around and wait for your husband to decide what he will do with your life- enough of that, he doesn't deserve that power. I wish you the best!! Yes, I'm living in the same house. We're "room-mates." And, yes, I am continuing to go to counselling. In fact, because I've been poring over psychology books, my counsellor told me she thought I'd missed my calling! So, all this hassle I've been enduring is not going to waste. I am looking into upgrading my qualifications to get qualified in counselling psychology. Somebody else could be benefitting from all I'm learning about human behaviour! Right now, I'm having a hard time because I'm the one who needs the guidance. I'm too close to see the forest for all the trees!
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