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March 2, 2006, 5:43 pm PST
Differing Sex Drives
Quote From: lilly_1985I am 20 yrs old two kids and married.. At the begin our sex life was great and now after five yrs I don't wanna have sex with him and its not becouse i don't love him or anything like that its just well I have no clue . He gets mad when i say no or I am tired .We fight about this all the time .. I think something is wrong with him cause its like thats all he ever wants to do..He at least has to have sex once a day and if not in turns into a fight . I don't even wont him around me cause I think if he is around me he will want to have sex so I just push him away....I know the saying if you don't give your man what he needs he will find it some where eles ...But is it really sex he needs? I'm a 20 year old wife as well. I know how hard it can be to manage sex and taking care of the kids and the house and everything else that we have chosen at such a young age. Possibly part of your problem with sex is that you are stressed. Stress decreases sex drive. And believe me i know that being sucha young wife and mother is STRESSFUL! But sex is important to your relationship. ( at the risk of sounding like Dr. Phil) It brings a close-ness and togetherness between you that nothing else can. It's like for that little bit of time, there is nothing in the world more important than the 2 of you. and having that connection is so important to maintaining a healthy strong marriage.
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