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March 3, 2006, 1:12 pm PST
Wow I thought I was the only one !
Quote From: dustyrose9My husband and i have a typical relationship when it comes to sexual frustration only in reverse! I WANT IT ALL THE TIME and he is fine to go 2 or 3 weeks without it! I don't know what to do. I'm NOT going to have an affair to satisfy my needs however i just cannot seem to get through to him that this is an important need of mine! I'm shocked. I know it is a stereo-type but i thought men were up for sex whenever. Mine acts like he's hardly interested in it. I've tried everything from lingerie to mixing it up as far as his Conservative style would let me, and talking dirty. Not only does it not work, he sometimes laughs at me!! I'm tired of being dissatisfied with our sex life. he insists that it isn't me, but I'm not so sure. When i ask for him he gives me "rain checks" until he's in the mood for it. WHAT CAN I DO TO CHANGE THIS? That's to funnie I never thoght I would got someone in the same situation as me , I'm alwaya bugging my hubby for sex and he gets mad at me and tell me that's all I think about why is it okay for them to want it all the time and when they want but look out when we want it , My man sounds like a lady when I talk about sex and bring up sex, He said that's all I think about ,
Anyways the best thing I ever did was never broght it up again and I told my man I was over the sex thing and I just left it alone for awhile and when he came home from work I looked my best , and never said one word about sex let me tell you how hard it was for me to not say anything it was always at the tip of my tough to say some thing but I did it and one day he came on to me and I tild him I was sleepy and that was hard to do but I did it all I wanted to do is jump his bones but no I stayed strrong, after awhile he realised I wasn't bugging him and he was coming on to me all the time .
So the bottom line is act like you don't want him and he will want you BAD! trust me .
PS DO NOT GIVE IN k
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